Shoes

Why am I preoccupied with thoughts of cleaning ladies shoes?

being humiliated by them and licking their boots/shoes clean HELP!! I think I have got a problem The thing is it gets in the way of all my other thoughts

Public Comments

1. You don't have a problem. You simply have a shoe fetish.
2. It sounds more like a fetish to me, and it's one that many people have. Have you ever considered seeking the services of a dominatrix? A professional could humiliate you in the way you desire, and you would be in control of the situation. Nothing would happen that you wouldn't want. If you go to your local adult entertainment shop, there might be a bulletin board there with the type of service you're seeking. If not, the people there might know where you could find what you want. If it's crowding out all other thoughts, then you must have your desire satisfied. You might be lucky enough someday to date a woman who will fulfill these desires of yours, but many women might find your fetish strange. Many large cities have fetish balls ~ you might look into attending those. That way you could meet others like yourself. There are many women who would love to meet a man who will grovel at their feet and spit shine their shoes/boots with their tongues.
3. ignore the other people...i think you have a problem...
4. It could also be a past life that needs some attention. Either way, it's not all that bad. Fetishes can be rather fun. With a good past life coach, past life regression is always fun.
5. Looking at your Q&A, it sounds like you have an obsession. Fetishes are normal, but obsessions are not. See a psychiatrist.